Patosha Jeffery, The Girls Basketball Trainer Blog » teamwork http://girlsbasketballtrainer.com/blog Wed, 01 Jun 2011 16:30:25 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 en hourly 1 The Most Dangerous Person in YOUR Life http://girlsbasketballtrainer.com/blog/2010/11/the-most-dangerous-person-in-your-life/ http://girlsbasketballtrainer.com/blog/2010/11/the-most-dangerous-person-in-your-life/#comments Thu, 11 Nov 2010 21:19:34 +0000 Patosha Jeffery http://girlsbasketballtrainer.com/blog/?p=331 I saw this a couple of years ago on John Di Lemme website, http://championslivefree.com.

Read It.. Think about It.

The Most Dangerous Person in YOUR Life

Who is the Most Dangerous Person in YOUR Life?

You may say that you have no such person in your life, but most likely you do and you just don’t know who they are. The majority of these people will not intentionally hurt you. It’s their actual character traits and their habits that will have a negative effect on your life.

So, what do these people look like? Most of them don’t have a certain look, but they do have many of the following traits.

These people

* Constantly speak negative
* See no light at the end of the tunnel
* Allow failure to be an option
* Don’t believe in dreams (yours or theirs)
* Want to “make” money rather than “earn” it
* Always have an opinion, which is negative
* Become complacent in their lives
* Make decisions that result in failure

Do you have these people on your Mastermind Team? If so, what are you going to do about it? You have two choices.

You can allow those people to control YOUR destiny with their negative opinions, failure mindset and inability to dream.

OR

You can Love them, Leave them and Show them. What does that mean? You simply continue to care for them as a friend, associate, etc., but you no longer allow them to negatively impact your life. If they don’t like attending personal development seminars, then don’t invite them. If they don’t like your positive mastermind team members, then stop allowing them to join your mastermind team gatherings. How do you show them? You forge forward towards the achievement of your Why despite any obstacle that you encounter. Those people will start to see that you are serious and nothing will stop you!

I challenge you to look at the top ten people that you associate with in your life, write down their names and then beside their names write down what impact each person has on your life. If ANY of them are negative, then you have two choices. Which one will you chose?

Motivating Champions Worldwide…


]]> http://girlsbasketballtrainer.com/blog/2010/11/the-most-dangerous-person-in-your-life/feed/ 0 How to stop getting frustrated at your teammates ? http://girlsbasketballtrainer.com/blog/2010/01/how-to-stop-getting-frustrated-at-your-teammates/ http://girlsbasketballtrainer.com/blog/2010/01/how-to-stop-getting-frustrated-at-your-teammates/#comments Fri, 22 Jan 2010 02:35:18 +0000 Patosha Jeffery http://girlsbasketballtrainer.com/blog/?p=107 If you are on a girls basketball team with average or below average players, don’t yell at them. That’s when its time to step up and be a leader and encourage them. By yelling at your teammates you are further discouraging them and making them not trust you as a leader.

Find ways to make your teammates better and contributors to the team. Talk to your teammates and develop goals of what you would like to accomplish as a team. And always be encouraging and positive towards them.


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